Author: Scott Patterson
Article:
They say that men have only one thing on their minds â€" and in
your case it's absolutely true.
Whether you can't stop thinking about that wonderful woman at
work or your eyes keep being drawn to the gorgeous girl across
the room, your crush has become all-consuming. She is all that
you can think about. And now you want to know: are you all that
she can think about, too?
Luckily, girls are easier to read than many men believe.
Much like us guys, if a chick is into someone she will want him
to know about it. After all, if he never notices her interest,
she'll never get that delicious first kiss.
The trouble is that, just like us, girls are scared of making
fools of themselves. She would love to tell you she likes you
but she's scared of misreading your signals and having you laugh
in her face. As a result, she is coy about her clues; the signs
are all there, but you do have to learn to look out for them.
So how can you tell if she likes you?
Let's start with the basics. These are the signals that every
girl gives out, regardless of whether you work together or
you've caught her eye across a crowded club.
Is she looking at you and smiling? There's no better sign.
Confident girls may maintain eye contact, but most will glance
quickly away the moment you notice them watching you. Check to
see if she keeps looking back your way â€" if she can't keep her
eyes off you, you know that she's interested.
Watch for flirtatious body language. Many girls fiddle with
their hair when they're attracted to a man. Some will start
stroking their own arm, neck or face distractedly, while shy
girls will blush whenever you look their way.
Now, let's make conversation with her. When an assertive chick
wants your attention she will become loud and start laughing at
even the weakest of your jokes; quieter girls may stammer or
stutter when trying to speak to you.
With the words starting to flow, she will look for excuses to
touch your hand or your arm. Making physical contact with you is
a sure sign of her interest.
If your crush is on a girl you know or work with, you may
believe this complicates matters. Nobody wants to be rejected by
someone they have to see or speak to on a daily basis. In fact,
fancying someone you're friendly with puts you in a great
position; you will already have proven to her that you're a good
guy, and your close contact gives you plenty of opportunities to
figure out if she's interested in you.
Does she ever text or email you just to say hello? If you
initiate contact, are her responses fast and chatty? Girls love
to flirt via messaging, so always give a prompt and positive
reply.
When chicks are into you, they will do almost anything to get
your attention. If she's making jokes at your expense, she
really wants you to notice her. Alternatively, if a normally shy
or well mannered girl starts making loud or cocky sexual
references she is trying to turn you on.
Arrange a group gathering. Invite your mutual friends or
workmates to a bar and try to gauge how eager she is to join
you. A girl who cancels her plans to be around you is keen to
know you better, while one who seems genuinely regretful about
missing out would love to get you alone.
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