Author: L.A. Hunter
Being a romance expert, I get this question a lot: How do I make
a good first impression on a date? Or, for men that aren't
usually very romantic, what's something important they can do to
create romance?
The number one thing they should be thinking about, before the
candles, before the dinner reservations and before the romantic
music is cleanliness. Yes, I said cleanliness. Good personal
hygiene and a clean house and car will ensure a good first
impression. Not a believer yet, read on.
If you're picking her up in your vehicle and she has to kick the
trash out of her way to put her feet on the floor, this is not a
good thing. Is the arm rest grimy and the passenger seat dirty
from your buddies greasy clothes? This is not a good thing. Here
is what she is thinking, "I can't believe I'm sitting in this
filthy car. I can't touch anything and I better not get crap on
my clothes. I took all this time deciding what to wear and
fixing my hear just right and he didn't even take five minutes
to clean me a spot to sit on."
Have your car detailed or clean it yourself, inside and out. If
it smells odd get an air freshener, preferably a Lavender
scented one which is perceived as an aphrodisiac by both men and
women.
While in your home, if she uses your bathroom and it isn't
clean, depending on how bad it is, you probably won't get a
second date. She is probably thinking, "He didn't care enough to
make sure I had a clean restroom, I don't think he's worth
anymore time. Besides, I'd just end up being his mother if we
kept dating." And if it's not a date breaker, I'm sure she's
thinking about that slimy hair or the disgusting toilet she just
sat on and not about the candle you lit or the wine you poured.
She is now distracted and it's very hard to pull her back to the
romantic date.
Clean every room you think she might see. Don't leave laundry
lying around, clean up any dirty dishes and run the vacuum
cleaner. They make these great cleaning wipes now that you just
pull one out wipe up and throw it away. It don't get any easier
than that.
Personal hygiene is just as important. She won't want to kiss a
rotten mouth. The dentist is a great investment when it comes to
romance. If you have problems with bad breath, tell your dentist
they do have ways of fixing it. The just showered and clean
clothes look are in.
If you follow these easy tips, you'll have already started the
romance. Now, chill that bottle of wine, light those candles and
turn on some fun music that makes you happy. One more tip, don't
use elevator music or you'll both be falling asleep.
For more romantic ideas, tips and advice visit <a
href="http://www.Romantic-Secrets.com">www.Romantic-Secrets.com</
a>.
About the author:
L.A. Hunter is a romance expert and author of "Romeo's
Playbook." An extremely male-friendly relationship book full of
romantic ideas. Along with being a romance consultant she is the
founder of <a
href="http://www.Romantic-Secrets.com">www.Romantic-Secrets.com</
a>, a romance boutique where you can find romantic gifts and
products, as well as FREE romantic ideas and other relationship
advice.
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