The 3 second rule

What is the 3 second rule??? It’s a really simple rule, you just have to see a girl and approach her 3 seconds after you first saw her. Why 3 seconds??, because if you wait more time you would get more nervous, the girl could leave, you could get all freak out and get really weird and that would freak out her when you go to talk to her and it `s more probability you wouldn`t approach her and if you don`t do it in the first ten minutes you see her.

Why not less than 3 seconds?? In fact is better if you approach her in less than 3 seconds, I think they say 3 seconds just to say something but giving the idea that you have to approach her immediately. When is not good to use the 3 second rule?? When you are really good at dating, when you don`t fear the approach at all, when you know for sure you would approach her and you are just waiting for the best time to approach her, but even in these examples steal is a good rule to apply.

It`s a really simple rule don`t you think??? Of course not, if you are as shy as me. Because 3 seconds is really too much time, and it left your brain enough time to think a reason not to approach a women. In the real world, when you do this for practice, it doesn`t happen, I used to freeze, and don`t apply the rule, and off course do not approach any women, but I tried to apply it every time, so like the 7 time I try to applied it just happen. I got into my brain that does the normal way to be, it was part of time, now I thing that is unusual not to approach a girl you like in 3 seconds. So these rule won`t help you immediately, maybe in 8 weeks or more or less, it depends on the person and the circumstances, just don`t give up, it isn`t magic but it helps. This rule won`t get you more girls, but this is a start, if you do it right, you would be able to talk to any girl, to the prettiest girl in the room and you wouldn`t care.

First you have to work the approach and then the other parts of the interaction. An one of the greatest for improving your approaching is the 3 second rule, it`s a great way to lose your shyness if you are shy. Another thing of these rule, you have to think the things you would say before you go out to the club or the street, as you may notice 3 seconds is a really short time, and probably not enough time to think of something to say. So you have to thing in your house 5 or more questions you can ask or phrases or whatever. If your are really good in improvising don`t worry about these.

Practice, practice and practice the 3 second rule, until you mastered it.